small talk in English
- small talk
See someone on the street that is clearly not from around here:
Hey, can I help you?
Do you need help?
Excuse me, can I help you?
May I offer you some assistance?
Would you like some help?
Do you need help with that?
Do you need help with directions?
How are you doing?
~Hello
~Wazzup?
How’s life?
weather
Have you seen the weather forecast for today?
Did you bring your umbrella?
What do you think about this weather?
food
What kind of food do you like?
What dishes do you like?
Do you eat meat?
travel
Do you like traveling?
at a new class
Is this course part of your major, or just an elective?
What is the story with the professor?
at a gaming club
What games are you playing these days?
What game can you recommend?
on a call with colleagues
at work in the kitchen
at work online
at the gym
What is your go-to routine?
How often do you go to gym?
How often do you come here?
first day of the job
“How long have you been working here?”
“What’s it like working here?”
I will show you our office.
I don’t know how to use the coffee machine. Can you show me?
at a cafe
How often do you come here?
Bob: Hi, is your name Svetlana?
Ann: Yes, my name is S? Have we met before?
Bob: I knew it! I knew I had seen you before in the office.
Ann: Where do you work? Where are you working now?
Bob: I work here in the neighborhood. It's close.
Ann: Where exactly do you work?
Bob: I work at Widgets Inc!
Ann: Yes, I knew it! I used to work there but now I'm at Wiggles Inc.
Bob: Do you mind if I sit here? Do you mind if I join you?
Ann: Oh, I'm sorry. My husband will be joining me soon.
Bob: I'm happy to see you and I hope to see you again! Have a nice day!
Ann: Thanks for stopping by. Thanks for the chat.
at a conference
Who do you know here?
Do you know any of the speakers personally?
waiting for a meeting to start
in the company kitchen
I have never seen you before. When did you join?
I hope it is working out for you.
How long have you been working here?
Can you recommend any [restaurants| places to eat| coffee places] nearby?
I know a good place nearby but it’s a bit far from our office.
Where is it exactly?
What’s it like for you to work here?
at a bus stop
joining a sports club
Why did you choose this club?
“How long have you been playing?
at a dance club
“Do you know if this place is normally good on this night?”
How often do you come here?
first day of the job
“How long have you been working here?”
“What’s it like working here?”
corridor at work
visiting colleague from overseas
It’s great seeing you! When did you arrive?
How was your trip?
visiting colleague from nearby
What do you think of our office?
What brings you here today?
How long will you be in town?
if you know them: How is your family?
at a meetup
“Is this your first time at one of these events?”
at a bus stop
Where are you going?
music
What kind of music do you like?
Do you like contemporary music?
How often do you listen to music?
How long is your playlist?
fishing
Do you have a fishing tackle?
cars
Do you have a driving license?
don’t interrupt these people
Headphones are the universal signifier of wanting to be left alone.
Reading a newspaper!
This is the classic do-not-disturb message.Reading a book.
Writing in a journal
look for
Headphones, but only in one ear
Making eye contact, smiling, looking around, generally acknowledging that the world outside exists
Talking to everyone else already
resources
meeting a new significant other
girlfriend
boyfriend
How did you meet X?
How did you meet so-and-so?
Who is that new so-and-so?
while traveling
How long have you been here?
What cities were you visiting before?
at a party
I haven't seen you in a million years! What have you been up to? What have you been doing? How have you been doing?
How do you know the [birthday boy, birthday girl,host]?
Ann:What does the birthday boy look like?
Bob:I don't know either!
Ann:Do you know someone else here who knows the birthday boy?
Bob: No, I don't.
Ann: Well this can be an adventure! Let's go ask around!
Who do you know here?
What do you do for fun?
How do you know the host?
What do you think of the party?
at a dance club
Do you know if this place is normally good on this night?
at the gym
What is your go-to routine?
look for
Headphones, but only in one ear
Making eye contact, smiling, looking around, generally acknowledging that the world outside exists
Talking to everyone else already
don’t want to necessarily
drugs
Hey man, you got any good drugs?
sex
Where are the girls?
politics
What do you think about the events in X?
X = anywhere Belarus Russia Crimea USA
religion
Do you attend any church | temple | synagogue| mosque?
money
Could you give me some money?
How much money do you make at your job?
What do you think about X?
X = this beer the news this music this band
How was your weekend?
I attended my brother’s wedding.
I went to a lake.
I went roller skating.
I cleaned my apartment.
I was drunk the ENTIRE weekend.
You can’t call it drinking all day unless you start in the morning!
What do you remember of your weekend?
He’s the same age as me.
What did you do?
Sunday was not AS intense as Saturday.
We started drinking at my apartment.
I showed my buddy around Kyiv.
I never get so drunk that I don’t remember!
living arrangements
Do you rent?
Do you own?
Do you know your neighbors?
Are you new to the neighborhood?
COVID19
Can this get any worse?
What is the new normal going to look like?
news
sports
Do you like sports?
Are you interested in sports?
Do you like football?
Do you know a good gym around here?
Do you work out?
What’s your routine?
How much can you lift?
How much can you press?
traffic
I hate this traffic! What about you?
movies
Have you seen X yet?
What was the last movie you have seen?
Did you like X?
Do you like watching movies?
Who is your favorite director?
TV television
Bob: Hey Abel how are you doing?
Abel: Fine thanks!
Bob: Have you seen the new Mandalorian, yet?
Abel: Yeah, I saw a few episodes from the first season.
Bob: [What did you think of the show? | What do you think of the show?]
Abel: The last episode was incredible!
Bob: Please! No spoilers!
Abel: Don’t worry! I wouldn’t do that to you! You should check out the new episode when you get a chance!
Bob: Thanks!What show would you recommend watching?
What show are you watching these days?
Have you seen X yet?
books
Do you read e-books?
What kind of books do you like to read?
What books have you read recently?
What are you reading these days?
Do you prefer paper or e-books?
hobbies
What is your favorite hobby?
higher education
school
Bob: How are you Abel? How’s school? Abel(14 y.o.):I’m doing fine. Since the lockdown, we are doing our courses online. I don’t like school! Bob: Are your studies any different this year from last year? Abel: If your asking about the lecture material, it hasn’t changed much. But, I can say the teachers are piling on the homework! I don’t like it! Bob: How are you doing your chemistry labs? Abel: Our teacher gave us some home chemistry experiments to do. We are watching a lot videos on Youtube. Bob: How are tests being monitored? Abel: We have to show our complete desk while taking our exams. Bob: All are of the teachers doing that? What about physical education? Abel: We have to keep a [diary| journal |log ] of our daily exercise. The last time we played a ball game, I broke my webcam! Bob: How are you performing your practical skills class? Abel: Since, we are in lockdown, it’s all gone to theory as opposed to hands-on work.How are you studying this year?
What is school like these days?
How is Pavlo these days?