small talk in English

  • small talk

    • See someone on the street that is clearly not from around here:

      • Hey, can I help you?

      • Do you need help?

      • Excuse me, can I help you?

      • May I offer you some assistance?

      • Would you like some help?

      • Do you need help with that?

      • Do you need help with directions?

    • How are you doing?

      • ~Hello

      • ~Wazzup?

      • How’s life?

    • weather

      • Have you seen the weather forecast for today?

      • Did you bring your umbrella?

      • What do you think about this weather?

    • food

      • What kind of food do you like?

      • What dishes do you like?

      • Do you eat meat?

    • travel

      • Do you like traveling?

  • at a new class

    • Is this course part of your major, or just an elective?

    • What is the story with the professor?

  • at a gaming club

    • What games are you playing these days?

    • What game can you recommend?

  • on a call with colleagues

  • at work in the kitchen

  • at work online

  • at the gym

    • What is your go-to routine?

    • How often do you go to gym?

    • How often do you come here?

  • first day of the job

    • “How long have you been working here?”

    • “What’s it like working here?”

    • I will show you our office.

    • I don’t know how to use the coffee machine. Can you show me?

  • at a cafe

    • How often do you come here?

      • Bob: Hi, is your name Svetlana?

      • Ann: Yes, my name is S? Have we met before?

      • Bob: I knew it! I knew I had seen you before in the office.

      • Ann: Where do you work? Where are you working now?

      • Bob: I work here in the neighborhood. It's close.

      • Ann: Where exactly do you work?

      • Bob: I work at Widgets Inc!

      • Ann: Yes, I knew it! I used to work there but now I'm at Wiggles Inc.

      • Bob: Do you mind if I sit here? Do you mind if I join you?

      • Ann: Oh, I'm sorry. My husband will be joining me soon.

      • Bob: I'm happy to see you and I hope to see you again! Have a nice day!

      • Ann: Thanks for stopping by. Thanks for the chat.

  • at a conference

    • Who do you know here?

    • Do you know any of the speakers personally?

  • waiting for a meeting to start

  • in the company kitchen

    • I have never seen you before. When did you join?

    • I hope it is working out for you.

    • How long have you been working here?

    • Can you recommend any [restaurants| places to eat| coffee places] nearby?

      • I know a good place nearby but it’s a bit far from our office.

        • Where is it exactly?

    • What’s it like for you to work here?

  • at a bus stop

  • joining a sports club

    • Why did you choose this club?

    • “How long have you been playing?

  • at a dance club

    • “Do you know if this place is normally good on this night?”

    • How often do you come here?


  • first day of the job

    • “How long have you been working here?”

    • “What’s it like working here?”

  • corridor at work

    • visiting colleague from overseas

      • It’s great seeing you! When did you arrive?

        • How was your trip?

    • visiting colleague from nearby

      • What do you think of our office?

      • What brings you here today?

      • How long will you be in town?

      • if you know them: How is your family?

  • at a meetup

    • “Is this your first time at one of these events?”

  • at a bus stop

    • Where are you going?

  • music

    • What kind of music do you like?

    • Do you like contemporary music?

    • How often do you listen to music?

    • How long is your playlist?

  • fishing

    • Do you have a fishing tackle?

  • cars

    • Do you have a driving license?

  • don’t interrupt these people

    • Headphones are the universal signifier of wanting to be left alone.

    • Reading a newspaper!
      This is the classic do-not-disturb message.

    • Reading a book.

    • Writing in a journal

      • look for

        • Headphones, but only in one ear

        • Making eye contact, smiling, looking around, generally acknowledging that the world outside exists

        • Talking to everyone else already


  • resources

  • meeting a new significant other

    • girlfriend

    • boyfriend

    • How did you meet X?

    • How did you meet so-and-so?
      Who is that new so-and-so?

  • while traveling

    • How long have you been here?

    • What cities were you visiting before?

  • at a party

    • I haven't seen you in a million years! What have you been up to? What have you been doing? How have you been doing?

    • How do you know the [birthday boy, birthday girl,host]?

      • Ann:What does the birthday boy look like?

      • Bob:I don't know either!

      • Ann:Do you know someone else here who knows the birthday boy?

      • Bob: No, I don't.

      • Ann: Well this can be an adventure! Let's go ask around!

    • Who do you know here?

    • What do you do for fun?

    • How do you know the host?

    • What do you think of the party?

  • at a dance club

    • Do you know if this place is normally good on this night?

  • at the gym

    • What is your go-to routine?

  • look for

    • Headphones, but only in one ear

    • Making eye contact, smiling, looking around, generally acknowledging that the world outside exists

    • Talking to everyone else already

  • don’t want to necessarily

    • drugs

      • Hey man, you got any good drugs?

    • sex

      • Where are the girls?

    • politics

      • What do you think about the events in X?

        • X = anywhere Belarus Russia Crimea USA

    • religion

      • Do you attend any church | temple | synagogue| mosque?

    • money

      • Could you give me some money?

      • How much money do you make at your job?

  • What do you think about X?

    • X = this beer the news this music this band

  • How was your weekend?

    • I attended my brother’s wedding.

    • I went to a lake.

    • I went roller skating.

    • I cleaned my apartment.

    • I was drunk the ENTIRE weekend.

      • You can’t call it drinking all day unless you start in the morning!

      • What do you remember of your weekend?

        • He’s the same age as me.

      • What did you do?

        • Sunday was not AS intense as Saturday.

        • We started drinking at my apartment.

        • I showed my buddy around Kyiv.

    • I never get so drunk that I don’t remember!

  • living arrangements

    • Do you rent?

    • Do you own?

    • Do you know your neighbors?

    • Are you new to the neighborhood?

  • COVID19

    • Can this get any worse?

    • What is the new normal going to look like?

  • news

  • sports

    • Do you like sports?

    • Are you interested in sports?

    • Do you like football?

    • Do you know a good gym around here?

    • Do you work out?

      • What’s your routine?

      • How much can you lift?

      • How much can you press?

  • traffic

    • I hate this traffic! What about you?

  • movies

    • Have you seen X yet?

    • What was the last movie you have seen?

    • Did you like X?

    • Do you like watching movies?

    • Who is your favorite director?

  • TV television
    Bob: Hey Abel how are you doing?
    Abel: Fine thanks!
    Bob: Have you seen the new Mandalorian, yet?
    Abel: Yeah, I saw a few episodes from the first season.
    Bob: [What did you think of the show? | What do you think of the show?]
    Abel: The last episode was incredible!
    Bob: Please! No spoilers!
    Abel: Don’t worry! I wouldn’t do that to you! You should check out the new episode when you get a chance!
    Bob: Thanks!

    • What show would you recommend watching?

    • What show are you watching these days?

    • Have you seen X yet?

  • books

    • Do you read e-books?

    • What kind of books do you like to read?

    • What books have you read recently?

    • What are you reading these days?

    • Do you prefer paper or e-books?

  • hobbies

    • What is your favorite hobby?

  • higher education

  • school
    Bob: How are you Abel? How’s school? Abel(14 y.o.):I’m doing fine. Since the lockdown, we are doing our courses online. I don’t like school! Bob: Are your studies any different this year from last year? Abel: If your asking about the lecture material, it hasn’t changed much. But, I can say the teachers are piling on the homework! I don’t like it! Bob: How are you doing your chemistry labs? Abel: Our teacher gave us some home chemistry experiments to do. We are watching a lot videos on Youtube. Bob: How are tests being monitored? Abel: We have to show our complete desk while taking our exams. Bob: All are of the teachers doing that? What about physical education? Abel: We have to keep a [diary| journal |log ] of our daily exercise. The last time we played a ball game, I broke my webcam! Bob: How are you performing your practical skills class? Abel: Since, we are in lockdown, it’s all gone to theory as opposed to hands-on work.

    • How are you studying this year?

    • What is school like these days?
      How is Pavlo these days?